sometimes i don't understand why things have to be so cut and dry. can't there be that gray area? if two people love each other and care about each other and love spending time with each other, why can't they hang out just because they are no longer together? sure, feelings are hurt and you can't exactly act the way you used to together but god, if you need each other can't you just adjust? it's compelling that two people who share the same thoughts can't share the same thought as this. unless your okay without me, then i am wrong.